Rapper Challenges Tradition: Why Blaqbonez Says ‘Open Marriage’ is the Future
Controversial Nigerian rapper and hip-hop heavyweight, Emeka Akumefule, famously known as Blaqbonez, has once again sparked a fierce debate about modern relationships, this time focusing on the sacred institution of marriage. Known for his candid and often provocative views, the artist recently declared in a podcast interview that he is completely open to the idea of an open marriage.
Appearing on a recent episode of the In My Opinion podcast, the artist behind the popular album Sex > Love laid out a surprisingly detailed and arguably logical justification for his non-traditional stance. His argument centers on two key areas: the inevitable decline of intimacy over time and the need for sexual freedom.
The Problem with Monogamy, According to Blaqbonez
Blaqbonez argues that the societal expectation of lifelong sexual exclusivity is unrealistic and often leads to covert infidelity. His core thesis is that after the initial rush, sexual intimacy naturally dwindles for most married couples.
He asserts that allowing extramarital sexual exploration with the spouse’s full knowledge and consent is a pragmatic solution that protects the emotional and mental core of the marriage.
“If somebody is satisfying her sexually while I’m hustling, touring, I’m not available to be getting intimate with her all the time. That is okay. There’s more to marriage than sex. I don’t mind that you’re sleeping with someone else provided you’re dedicated to me,” he stated.
Dedication Over Exclusivity: The ‘Mental Addiction’ Factor
The rapper drew a clear line between the physical act of intimacy and the emotional and mental bond that defines a marriage. He claims that a casual partner cannot easily replace the depth of connection he would share with his wife.
He believes the foundational bond is too strong to be threatened by external sexual partners, stating it would be difficult for a “random person” to “just come and match up with what I have put in there”. In his view, the commitment in an open marriage is maintained through emotional and mental “dedication,” not physical restriction.
The Two-Room Marriage Setup
Taking his controversial vision even further, Blaqbonez suggested a radical living arrangement for his potential marital future: separate bedrooms.
“If I’m even going to get married, I need two rooms. Me and my wife will only meet when we want to have intimacy,” he revealed.
This setup reinforces his philosophy that marriage should prioritize the mental and collaborative aspects of partnership while treating sex as a dedicated, optional, and transactional encounter.
Blaqbonez continues to challenge traditional norms, echoing the sentiments of his 2021 album, which posited that non-exclusivity is becoming the unavoidable reality of modern dating. His new comments about an open marriage elevate this conversation from dating into the realm of lifelong commitment, positioning him as a leading voice for polyamorous and non-monogamous thought in the African entertainment space.
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