J. Lo’s First Ex-Husband, Ojani Noa, Fires Back: ‘Tell the Truth for Once,’ Accuses Star of Cheating

The fallout continues following Jennifer Lopez’s recent comments suggesting she’s never been “truly loved” by her ex-partners. Her first ex-husband, Ojani Noa, has launched a scathing public rebuttal, accusing the superstar of being the cause of their failed marriage including allegations of infidelity and prioritizing her career over their relationship.
The explosive war of words erupted after the 56-year-old singer’s candid statements during a recent interview, where she suggested her exes were “not capable” of loving her. Noa, a personal trainer who was married to Lopez for 11 months from 1997 to 1998, took to social media to blast her comments as a “victim card.”
Ojani Noa, who met Lopez when he was a waiter, did not mince words in his furious post. Directly challenging her statement that she hasn’t been truly loved, Noa insisted he was a faithful and loving partner.
Key points from his fiery response include:
- Accusations of Cheating: Noa directly alleged that Lopez was unfaithful during their brief marriage, writing, “The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants.”
- Prioritizing Fame: He claimed Lopez chose “fame and fortune” over their relationship, alleging she lied and cheated while begging him to keep their marriage intact to “avoid bad press.”
- The ‘Truth’ Demand: Noa concluded with a pointed call for honesty, urging the star to “Tell the truth for once. Let people know that you are the problem.”
Noa’s comments highlight the long-standing tensions surrounding the end of their marriage, which occurred at the very beginning of J. Lo’s monumental rise to superstardom. He previously stated that he was the “pioneer,” there to support her anxieties and insecurities before she became a global icon.
The catalyst for Noa’s reaction was Lopez’s recent interview where she discussed her relationship history, which includes four marriages and numerous high-profile relationships. The “Marry Me” actress reflected on her past, stating, “What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovableit’s that they’re not capable. They don’t have it in them.”
She explained that while her exes gave her “all the rings, all the things I could ever want,” the capacity for “true love” was missing.
Lopez has yet to publicly respond to Noa’s latest allegations. The ongoing controversy has once again put intense media scrutiny on the megastar’s personal life and her complicated relationship history.
